21 Questions To Ask A Guy
Wednesday, January 27th, 2010
Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his best-selling book, “How to win friends and influence people” talks about the amazing power of asking questions to show that we are interested in someone else.
Have you ever been to a party and you’ve been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you’re a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leaping to last-base, saving a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you’re a woman and want to pamper a guy’s ego and make him feel super good and wanted, then just ask him lots of questions and then really listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a dangling string in seconds!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation moving. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.
Here’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was really rude, would you spit in their soup or even think to do this?
2. What was your favourite Halloween dress up costume as a child and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with five people – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?
4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?
5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?
6. What was your most favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them and why?
8. What do you regret not doing the most in your life?
8. What’s the most way-out experience you have had in your entire life?
9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?
10. What age were you when you had your first proper date and did you get to kiss them?
11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?
14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?
And now let’s get a little more risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!
15. Have you ever been caught stark naked in a public place – if so what were you doing?
16. What’s the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What are your biggest sexual turn-ons and turn-offs?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?
21. Have you ever serial sex – with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?
If you would like to read more fun questions that you can ask different guys then visit 21 questions to ask a guy today.
